7 Deadly Dating Sins

As promised, today we shall discuss and talk about the 7 deadly dating sins that we, guys tend to commit while flirting. Understanding this, greatly increases your chances of getting the women of your dreams. So, pay close attention. :)

Deadly sin number 1:

An indecisive and wimpy man

As you can see, the first deadly sin would be of the sin of indecision and wimpy-ness.

• It is always tough for the man to make decisions. Even so, always have 2 choices. Just in case the girl doesn't agree with one and by doing so, successively avoid an awkward situation
• Ask the girl for her preference. But those who think that letting the women decide would mean making her feel more comfortable and increases your chances of getting her, you are horribly WRONG
• She will feel frustrated even though the man was just being considerate by letting her choose as unsure of what she likes
• This to her subconsciously shows what the relationship is like
• May feel that the guy does not take the initiative and does not have enough oomph to make quality decisions

Sin number 2

Ungentlemanly conduct

The second deadly sin would be the sin of ungentlemanly conduct

• Examples would be, not pulling the chair for her, opening the door for her
• Women do not want to bring this guys home
• Women are looking for chivalry
• Might seem little but women appreciate small gestures that will go a long way for her
• But do not worry! You do not have to do this your whole life, only when you are trying to win her over
• May seem like a fantasy but women are looking for knights in shinning armor

Sin number 3

Fashion disaster

The third deadly sin would fall under the category of fashion sin

• Men must be always dressed smartly, nicely, neatly and ready to impress by being fashionably attired with neat and pressed clothes
• However, women do have a double standard
  
• They do not want to be judged by their appearances but judges man for theirs
• Some are even able to tell everything just by looking at the shoes. *hint there*
• If you really want to win her over, dress smartly even if its for a casual date
• Always take some time to look nicer, you never know who you're going to meet
• If ever in doubt, you can always see an image consultant which does not cost much and helps increases your chances tenfold!

Sin number 4

Bad table manners

• Those who are not able to hold a knife, fork or spoon properly and for some chinese people maybe even chopstick? Or chewing with mouth opened are unsuitable to be brought home for dinner
• Shows the women that you are a person with caliber and helps unsure that you are the person she wants to spend the rest of her life with as she is not ashamed to eat with you.
  
• Do not worry, manners can be thought
• You can start by practicing it on a regular basis

Sin number 5

Being a cheapskate

• If the guys don't pay for things, the girls would for sure run away *gold diggers*
• Goes back to thousands of years of the evolutionary psychology and how guys should always be the one paying
• Want to be sure that the guy would be able to provide for them, especially after having a family
• Give and take situation needed
• IF you're cheap, sorry you have no chance. And no splitting of bills please. :P

Sin number 6

A lousy car

• This part here is a tricky stage. Do not pick up the girl for the first few dates
• She may not trust the guy enough yet and is cautious for her own personal safety
• Maybe after 2 or 3 dates yes but always in a clean and tidy car
• If its inexpensive, at least make it tidy

Sin number 7

Lack of preserverance

• Women wants to be chased and to feel wanted; and for guys to pursue her
• Wants the man to go to the ends to provide and protect for her
• Want men to take the initiative
• Want guys to call them out for the first date
• If the man does not call within the first 2-3 days, the woman will then lose interest
• Pursuit is IMPORTANT
• If want things to work out, take the initiative to ask her out for the 2nd and 3rd time, things will then flow smoothly after that
• If you meet a woman for the first time, she will immediately tell her girlfriends and would be dying to hear from you. Therefore, there is no such thing as calling too soon
• Even if not sure, call or email. You will go up a notch or 2 in her books
• If she's not interested then its okay. You tried and the worst case scenario would be that she would think that you're interested and feel flattered
• JUST MOVE ON AND FIND ANOTHER ONE AFTER THAT :)

May your dating life be as prosperous as those PUA (pick up artists) Good luck and all the best flirting!